You will never have life “all figured out”
A lot of conversations I have with people, they ask how do I figure life out?
For me, you will never have “life all figured out”.
I say this because life’s variables are constantly changing forcing you to re-think and re-gain perspective.
Push yourself to be your greatest self and “figure” life out best you can but also understand variables/uncertainties of life will always be a factor
Take your love life, for example.
You may think, once I get into a long-term relationship, all my love life problems will gone.
What happens if that long-term relationship doesn’t last? Then you’ll need to re-group and try again.
What happens if that long-term relationship instead continues to prosper? You guys will continue to develop as a couple — most likely get engaged, get married, maybe have kids.
In other words, there’s no point, where you can say, my love life is figured out because your love life is always in a fluid state.
I think the best thing to do is just embrace the fact that life will always have uncertainties, that’s just the way things are and will always be.