Don’t judge someone without full context
Don’t judge someone without full context.
The other day, a friend was talking to me about how she thought this friends of her that she liked was being arrogant.
She felt that she had shown a lot of signs of interest and he hadn’t made a move.
So, I asked her, why don’t you just ask him?
It might feel awkward, but at least you’ll have your answer.
So, she did.
Guess what he said?
He said, actually, I don’t have the best self esteem of myself, I don’t view myself highly and I don’t love myself. That’s why I didn’t make a move and that’s why I’m passive.
Mentally, it feels weird to think someone could love me.
Here, she was thinking he’s big timing her and playing hard to get, when in fact, it was the opposite. Before you judge, understand the whole context.