Being desperate for a relationship is not a good mindset.
I get it.
Being single for a long time can make you feel overwhelmed at times and you can feel very self-conscious of that.
However, that being said, you must continue to love yourself and realize, whether you’re in a relationship or not, is not a reflection of your value. Don’t tie your self esteem to this fact.
Getting into a relationship won’t save you from your insecurities of your value.
You must love yourself first to do that.
The better mindset to adopt is to love yourself, feel whole, and say, being in a relationship with someone would add to my life.
This is the mindset that, if a relationship opportunity came, you’d be ready to be in a healthy, long-term and mature partner.